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Books by Jeremy Abram

Guides, tools, and stories built to help you think clearer, connect better, and live with more awareness.

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Technology & Culture

For people who feel the invisible pressure of modern systems—and want clarity, language, and practical autonomy.

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THE WEIGHT OF TECHNOLOGY: How Digital Systems Quietly Reshape the Human Mind

ASIN: B0G48RTFPQ
  • Understand the “why” behind digital overwhelm, fragmentation, and mental noise.
  • Spot hidden pressure points affecting attention, identity, memory, and emotional regulation.
  • Rebuild autonomy with clear frameworks for boundaries and internal space.
Tech & psychology Attention & identity Digital culture

Dating & Relationship Tools

Human-centered frameworks designed to reduce confusion, improve communication, and make compatibility visible early.

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PINKFOLDER™ — Relationship Profile Scoring Tool (At-Home, Offline Self-Scoring)

ASIN: B0G4HWB47H
  • Identify your relationship style with a guided, self-scoring framework you can do privately.
  • Turn “confusing patterns” into clarity—needs, tendencies, and compatibility signals.
  • Better conversations by bringing structure to the topics that matter.
Self-scoring tool Emotional style Compatibility clarity
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PinkFolder Mutual Menu™: The Relationship Compatibility Blueprint

ASIN: B0G6FNPM3M
  • Compare preferences across lifestyle, routines, priorities, and everyday compatibility.
  • Reduce late surprises by getting alignment out in the open—early and respectfully.
  • Turn tension into clarity with structured prompts and scoring-style guidance.
Compatibility Conversation tool Practical framework
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The Art of Dating – and Beyond!: Finding and Sustaining Connection in the Digital Age

ASIN: B0G4CNPRTR
  • Date with confidence without turning it into performance or manipulation.
  • Communicate clearly (boundaries, pacing, red flags, emotional safety).
  • Create real chemistry using practical frameworks for connection.
Modern dating Emotional intelligence Healthy boundaries
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DATING! – Blast From The Past: Pre-Digital Era Dating & Communication Skills (70s, 80s, 90s)

ASIN: B0G4CY693F
  • Re-learn real-world romance: presence, courage, patience, human chemistry.
  • Break app-shaped habits that can flatten connection and distort expectations.
  • Bring the best forward—old-school communication that still works.
Communication Nostalgia + skills Real-world connection

Support & Healing

For the people who carry the worry, the weight, and the love—when someone close is struggling with addiction.

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You Matter Too: A Healing Guide for Partners, Parents & Loved Ones of People Struggling With Alcohol Addiction

ASIN: B0G3C988RC
  • A compassionate framework for navigating the emotional reality of loving someone in addiction.
  • Tools for coping with stress, guilt, exhaustion, and the “walking-on-eggshells” cycle.
  • Steady, practical guidance that protects your wellbeing while still honoring love.
Support & healing Addiction & family Boundaries

Self-Growth & Connection

Small words that land big—designed for daily reinforcement, emotional warmth, and steady momentum.

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1001 Beautiful Things to Say to Yourself in the Mirror: Choose to Uplift Your Day

ASIN: B0G38QBY32
  • Build self-worth with a daily practice that’s simple and repeatable.
  • Reframe self-talk when motivation is low or your inner voice turns harsh.
  • Create emotional stability through gentle, consistent reinforcement.
Affirmations Self-compassion Daily practice
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1001 Beautiful Things to Tell Your Partner: A Daily Collection of Affection, Appreciation & Emotional Connection

ASIN: B0G3FVQ28V
  • Strengthen connection through consistent “small moments” that matter.
  • Say it better—warm, clear phrases you can text, write, or speak.
  • Reconnect fast when stress or routine starts to dull intimacy.
Couples Emotional connection Giftable

Responsible Serving

Training guides for safer service, reduced liability, better judgment calls, and stronger operational consistency.

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The Responsible Server: A Guide to Serving Alcohol in Maine

ASIN: B0G3KDMTHM
  • Maine-specific guidance explained simply (no legal fog—just usable rules).
  • Cut-off scripts + de-escalation tools for real situations.
  • Training materials included (checklists, logs, exam-style practice).
Maine edition Liability reduction Staff training
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The Responsible Server’s Handbook: Universal 50-State Guide to Safe, Professional Alcohol Service

ASIN: B0G3WPXPH7
  • Universal fundamentals that apply across the U.S. (IDs, impairment, refusal, safety).
  • Operational systems for documentation, incident reporting, and training consistency.
  • Built for teams—use it as a staff manual, not just a read.
50-state principles Professional service Management tools
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The Responsible Server: Fraternal & Club Supplement Edition (Maine Edition)

ASIN: B0G43T6TKL
  • Designed for clubs with volunteer bartenders and member/guest nuances.
  • Clear compliance guidance tailored to fraternal environments.
  • Protect the organization with practical policy models and documentation tools.
Clubs & lodges Volunteer training Risk reduction

Cats & Behavior

For cat people who want the “why” behind the weirdness—decoded with humor, insight, and practical takeaways.

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Purrception: The Science & Comedy of How Cats Talk

ASIN: B0G43GZYN6
  • Decode behavior (tail flicks, stares, zoomies, “gifts,” laptop-sitting… all of it).
  • Reduce misunderstandings by learning what signals actually mean.
  • Build a shared language for better trust, bonding, and calmer routines.
Cat behavior Humor + insight Practical understanding

Frequency & Inner State

A grounded exploration of “energy” as nervous system state, environment, resonance, and emotional regulation—plus a built-in self-assessment style framework.

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Living In Tune: How Frequencies Shape Your Mood, Relationships & Reality

ASIN: B0G584XP4H
  • Understand triggers: why certain people/places calm you—or spike anxiety.
  • Map your state with a structured “range” approach you can reflect on.
  • Improve clarity by aligning environment, boundaries, and emotional regulation.
Nervous system Self-assessment Mood + environment

Speculative Fiction & The Archivist Trilogy

Stories exploring identity, consciousness, resurrection, and the cost of technological power—through layered worlds and human consequence.

Read the trilogy in order
Start with Book One, then continue straight through to the finale.
Book 1 Book 2 Book 3
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Archivist’s Wake

The Archivist Trilogy — Book One • ASIN: B0G2HHYJBW
  • Start here: the opening of the Archivist project—and a civilization on the edge.
  • Memory as power when history becomes the currency of survival.
  • Foundational world-building with human consequence at the center.
Speculative fiction AI & civilization Series opener
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The Era of Mirrors

The Archivist Trilogy — Book Two • ASIN: B0G2HP3QYZ
  • Reality fractures as resurrection reshapes power, memory, and identity.
  • Deepens the universe with layered timelines and ethical tension.
  • Reflection vs truth—who we are, who we appear to be, and what survives.
Speculative fiction AI & consciousness Series middle
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The Age of Creation

The Archivist Trilogy — Book Three • ASIN: B0G2HLYHG4
  • The culmination—when memory’s reign fades and something new begins.
  • High-concept, human consequence—the cost of creation, the mercy of forgetting.
  • A final reckoning with identity beyond data and consciousness beyond storage.
Speculative fiction Memory & identity Series finale
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